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Planning for (Instead of Waiting for) Mental Health Crisis
A Wellness Recovery Action Plan can be very helpful for helping someone who is struggling with mental illness, especially how to prevent...
Apr 15, 20211 min read


Out of the Circle Thinking
Focus = Feelings If you tend to focus on things you do not control, you’ll feel more anxious in general, because the brain evolved to...
Mar 29, 20212 min read


Why Meghan Matters
She had unlimited resources, a title, fame. Yet, she suffered racism, sexism and a host of other "isms". She felt suicidal. She reached...
Mar 14, 20211 min read


The Truth Behind Lying
When you catch someone lying, it is natural to feel betrayed. It feels like an insult, and it is very hard to step back and be objective....
Mar 14, 20213 min read


If You are Exploring Plant-Based Modalities
It is really important to keep your healthcare providers in the loop anytime you add supplements or vitamins to your routine. And it is...
Mar 10, 20211 min read


Why Kitty Genovese is Relevant Today (trigger alert)
From Wiki "In the early hours of March 13, 1964, 28year-old, Kitty Genovese, was stabbed outside the apartment building across the street...
Feb 26, 20212 min read


The Eeyore in Your Life
Helpless Complainer (or Help-Rejecting Complainer) Is there some one you know who always has a cloud over them? It can be tempting to get...
Feb 26, 20211 min read


Measuring Relationship Attachment
The RAM Model was produced by Dr. John Van Epp in his research regarding relationships progression. It’s a simple way to look at how...
Feb 26, 20214 min read


You look great!
Comments about our bodies, even positive, can be triggering. We have a weight-obsessed (and youth obsessed) culture, and we have decided...
Feb 26, 20212 min read


Stinking Thinking
Research has taught us that 99% of individuals experience intrusive thoughts at least occasionally and 13% of those individuals...
Feb 26, 20213 min read


Dealing with People
Struggling with someone in your life? Having a hard time moving forward? As long as you stay entrenched in your own position or enslaved...
Feb 20, 20212 min read


Discussing your Diagnosis with your Child through Story Time
Story time can provide more than entertainment; it’s a way to discuss difficult topics. I have listed some books to read with your...
Feb 20, 20214 min read


Fear, Anxiety & the Brain (Physiology)
Garrett Ray Harriman writes a wonderful article on how it all works. It was so helpful to me to review that I thought is was worth a...
Feb 20, 20214 min read


Shame and Self Care
Let's acknowledge one of the major barriers to self-care. It's not $$ or TIME, it's something much deeper: SHAME. Self-care relates to...
Feb 20, 20212 min read


Self Care vs Indulgence
80-90% of self-care is an inside job. This means that most of our self-care revolves around our internal processes. It’s about how we...
Feb 20, 20212 min read


Mind Full of Associations
Mindful Associations- SOM S- Scent. Scent is our earliest memory. We can use scents to evoke positive or negative memories and their...
Feb 20, 20211 min read


How Childhood Trauma Impacts a Marriage
You are probably reading this because something that happened a long time ago to your partner is having an impact on your relationship...
Feb 20, 20217 min read


Forgiving Your Abuser
Forgiving an abuser is hard, especially when it is someone who failed to protect you, like a caregiver in your childhood. Forgiving your...
Feb 20, 20213 min read


Fight, Flight, Freeze, Dissociate
Dissociation is a form of “freezing”. It is a strategy that is often used when the option of fighting or running (fleeing) is not an...
Feb 20, 20212 min read


A Letter to an Abusive Parent
Here is an example of a letter to a mother from her adult child. Notice how it focuses on her emotions and perspective rather than simply...
Feb 20, 20212 min read
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